Beans and Pie Crust
Well, I didn’t really experience any of the stressors listed for this assignment as a child, so I chose to ask my dad what he might have experienced when he was younger…
He told me about the poverty he experienced. He told me how his mother (who died when I was just a baby) raised him on her own and how, when he was younger, he didn’t even realize the situation they were in. He remembers having “beans and pie crust for dinner…but those were some good beans and pie crust!” He’s often talked about how well his mother cooked. I believe it was the nurturing and care that he received from his mom that helped him cope with it. It wasn’t really until he was older that he said he realized the stress that was on her.
He also discussed his mother’s mental illness that was a result of the many stressors in her life and how he began to know when she would be “getting sick.” The affect it had on him was mostly the sadness he had for her having to deal with this. Looking back on it, he had nothing but positive repercussions of this experience. He talked about how it fueled his desire to do well in school so that she wouldn’t have the stress of a bad child to deal with. He also discussed how dealing with her helped him to have sensitivity when dealing with others he came across in his life who had mental illness and how God just allowed him to be able to see what he saw and deal with it. His final outlook he says with a smile in his voice: “I was fortunate; I came through it mostly in tact.” As my dad related to me his experiences with these stressors, he also discussed how malleable children are; that they can go through so much and not even realize it and still “do remarkably”.
Poverty and Brazilian Children
I viewed a 2005 study from several students at Tulane University about Brazilian children, which indicated that at that time, 7-8 million Brazilian children were estimated to be living on the streets while 25 million were living below the poverty line (Bodack, Hunter, Kaufman, Kelly, 2005). This study discussed how poverty is really the root cause of all the other stressors they experience, including disease and malnutrition, drug abuse, lack of education, and even prostitution. There has been legislation created to combat the problem of the increasing numbers of street children that gives them rights to many things including “health, nutrition, education, and leisure” (Bodack et. Al, 2005). Recent legislation has been put into place that provides financial incentives to parents to send their children to school (Bodack et. Al, 2005). There have also been a number of programs and organizations instituted to help these children. This study also indicates that, although these solutions are helping the children, more must be done to combat the root cause of their poverty: unjust governmental policy. Isn’t this always the root of the issue?
Resources
Tulane University “The Truth Behind Children in Brazil”
The Channel: an organization committed to “transforming the nation of Brazil, one child at a time”


Great Post!It's good that your father was able to overcome such profound events from his childhood. Moreover, it's good that he shared his experiences with you. The facts listed about poverty is so true. It's so important that society does everything possible to eliminate poverty.
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing what a child can block out from their past. It is a testament to their plasticity to endure and recover from such ordeals. Your Dad didn't even know he was living in poverty until he was old enough to deal with it. I think that is how most kids survive poverty, they just don't realize that is what they are living with. Your grandmother did a wonderful job sheltering your father from that and raising a confident person.
ReplyDeleteThere has always been something peculiar about poverty. There is some kind of substance abuse associated with it- cigarettes, marijuana, alcohol. How do they afford it?!
I don't get it either. I've wondered the same thing before. How do you have money for cigarettes and can't buy yourself a decent meal? But then I think that, perhaps to them, experiencing all this stress, that cigarette is the most effective version of peace they can afford; maybe even more valuable to them than a good meal.
ReplyDeletePoverty is so ugly. The more I learn about it in our textbooks, the more I absolutely despise it.